Watch 5 times comedian Charlie Murphy healed the world with laughter, with a bonus clip from Eddie Murphy.
"Comedians are people who embarrass themselves in style." -A.D. Posey
Today, father brother and comedian, Charlie Murphy passed away in a New York Hospital while battling Leukemia. While his exact diagnosis date is unclear, it is certain that he has been battling this disease for a few years, as a 2016 appearance on Good Day LA shows a thinner Charlie Murphy channeling his energy to entertain, like a true performer. As TMZ reported this morning, Murphy was recieving chemotherapy treatment and his family actually thought he was getting better, even joking that they not call as much. That's what comedians do, especially comedians turned actors. They entertain, putting all of their physical and emotional turmoil to the side to bring joy and laughter to others, while still causing the world to contemplate reality-just look at Robin Williams, Chris Farley, and Bernie Mac as a few examples.
While Charlie was first introduced to the world as, "Eddie Murphy's big brother", he quickly became known as an engaging standup comedian with an infectious laugh. His true skill, which he displayed in every facet of his professional (and I'm sure personal) life was his ability to tell stories. You know that saying, "it's not what you say, it's how you say it"? Murphy was the physical manifestation of that. With a look, a tone, he could tell a story in a way that no one else could, to the point where even his laugh could make you burst from the belly with t before he even told a joke. While he wrote for a lot of Eddie Murphy's most successful films, and had a successful career in standup and movies before then,the Dave Chappelle show highlighted his knack for retelling a tale, being a cornerstone in the show's funniest skits. Even as himself, when Charlie told a story, the people were entertained. Add in his real encounters with Prince and Rick James (both of whom confirmed the stories were mostly true) and you have a life meant for comedic re-enactments.
"He'd walk up to any chick and lick the whole side of their face, man."- Charlie Murphy on Rick James
One of my favorite interviews is this piece for Esquire. A free form retelling of someone's life, the "What I've Learned" series was like reading a conscience exercise or diary entry of a celebrity if they were as honest with themselves as they were at fifteen. Two years after the death of his wife (from cervical cancer in 2009), Charlie talked about knowing she was the one from the moment she saw her, and telling his family that same night, in front of her. It was evident Charlie loved his life, his wife, his family, and the discipline he sought out at a young age after a quick lesson from the judicial system and some Karate. "People with black belts have good moral standards. I never met a drug dealer at the dojo," might be the funniest and truest thing he said in that interview.
"I mean, you know where you got that shirt. And it damn sure wasn't the men's department"- Charlie Murphy to Prince
Most recently, Charlie was filming for the newest season of the Starz hit "Power", a job former costar and fellow comedian Donnell Rawlings said was supposed to be his. While it is easy to feel sad and shocked at the loss of this great comedian, I always think about how people would want you to honor them in their passing. A man who said he tried comedy and can't remember a week he was without a stage since wouldn't want you to dwell in his death. He'd want you to laugh, re-live some belly aching Charlie Murphy moments and be jealous that he is playing shirt versus blouses with Prince. I know I am.
1. When he rolled through Snoop's GGN
This guy is an amazing storyteller.
2. When he shared his list of the five wackest rappers
I know he's not trying to be funny, but my God he is.
3. His Chapelle Show Extras
4. Charlie Murphy talking about Prince's reaction to the infamous Chapelle Show set
Is anyone else hoping that the fiercest, funniest game of basketball is going down in heaven right now?
5. You know you are funny when all you have to do is laugh
6. Honorable Mention- Eddie Murphy Impersonating Charlie Murphy
May he continue to live on through his family
Breaking down the bias of comfort films.
With the constant onslaught of complicated news that 2020 has brought, sometimes you just want to be able to shut off your brain, relax, and feel happy.
Enter comfort films. These are the feel-good movies that feel like a warm hug when you finish them, the ones that allow you to escape for a short while. We often turn to these types of films in times of trouble or extreme stress, and when we're not sure what films of this nature we should watch, we turn to the Internet for options.
Rivera's "Glee" character was not just important, she was groundbreaking.
As a young queer girl growing up in the south, I was lucky that my parents weren't homophobes.
My parents believed that people were sometimes born gay, and while they wouldn't "wish that harder life" on their children, they certainly made me and my sister believe that gay people were just as worthy of love as anyone else. I was lucky.
Still, in my relatively sheltered world of Northern Virginia (a rich suburb near Washington D.C.), homophobia wasn't as blatant as hate crimes or shouted slurs, but it was generally accepted that being straight was, simply, better.
In high school, it wasn't uncommon to use "gay" as an insult or for girls to tease each other about being "lez." While many of us, if asked, would have said we were in support of gay marriage and loved The Ellen Show, being gay remained an undesirable affliction.
Even more insidious, I was instilled with the belief—by my church and my peers—that if gay and lesbian people could be straight, they would. But since they were simply incapable of attraction to the opposite sex or fitting into traditional gender roles, we should accept them as they are as an act of mercy. At the time, this kind of pity seemed progressive and noble. Those in my close circle of family and friends weren't openly dismissive or condemning of gay people, but we saw homosexuality as a clear predisposition with no gray areas.
Specifically: Gay men talked with a lilt, giggled femininely, and were interested in things that weren't traditionally "masculine." Meanwhile, gay women dressed like men, had no interest in makeup or other traditionally female interests, and probably had masculine bodies and features. In my mind, before someone came out as gay, they did everything in their power to "try to be straight" but were eventually forced to confront the difficult reality that they felt no attraction at all to the opposite sex. I viewed homosexuality not as a spectrum, but as a black and white biological predisposition that meant you were thoroughly, completely, and pitiably gay.
As a child, when I began to experience stirrings of attraction for other girls, I would reassure myself that not only had I definitely felt attraction for men in the past, but I also liked being pretty. I was a tomboy as a child, sure, but as I got older I recognized that my value was increased in the eyes of society if I tried to be a pretty girl. As it turned out, I even liked putting on clothes that made me feel good, I liked applying makeup, and I liked some traditionally "feminine" things. In my mind, this meant that I couldn't be gay, because gay women didn't like "girl" stuff.
As a teenager, I began to learn more about the difference between gender and sexuality, and the fluidity of both. I began to let myself feel some of the long-suppressed feelings of queer desire I still harbored.
Still, in the back of my mind, the instilled certainty of sexuality as an extremely rigid thing sometimes kept me up at night. What if I was gay? Would I have to change the way I looked? Would I have to give up some of the things I liked? In my mind, being gay meant your sexuality was your whole identity, and everything else about you disappeared beneath the weight of it.
But then, Santana came out as gay on Glee.
GLEE - The Santana 'Coming Out Scene' www.youtube.com
If you didn't watch Glee, than you might not know the importance of Naya Rivera's character to so many queer young women like myself. Santana was beautiful, she was popular, she had dated boys, she was feminine, she was sexy, and she was gay. There's even evidence that Santana had previously enjoyed relationships with men.
But the character came out anyways, not because she had to or because it was obvious to everyone around her that she was gay, but because her attraction to women was an aspect of her identity she was proud of. It wasn't an unfortunate reality she simply had to make the best of; it was an exciting, beautiful, aspect of her identity worth celebrating.
Before Santana, it had never really come home for me that being gay wasn't an entire identity—that it wasn't an affliction or disorder, but just another part of a person. She also didn't suddenly start wearing flannels or cutting her hair after coming out. She was the same feminine person she had always been. I had never realized that being a gay woman didn't have to look a certain way. Santana and Brittany's gay storyline showed two femme-presenting women in love, and for me, that was a revolution.
If it wasn't for Naya Rivera, we may never have had that important story line.
"It's up to writers, but I would love to represent [the LGBTQ community] because we know that there are tons of people who experience something like that and it's not comical for them in their lives," Rivera told E! News in 2011. "So I hope that maybe we can shed some light on that."
While Rivera herself wasn't gay (the importance of casting gay actors in gay roles is a separate conversation), she understood how important her character was to the queer community. "There are very few ethnic LGBT characters on television, so I am honored to represent them," Rivera told Latina magazine in 2013. "I love supporting this cause, but it's a big responsibility, and sometimes it's a lot of pressure on me."
Rivera wasn't just a supporter of the LGBTQ+ community on screen. In 2017, she wrote a "Love Letter to the LGBTQ Community" for Billboard's Pride Month. In it, she wrote, "We are all put on this earth to be a service to others and I am grateful that for some, my Cheerios ponytail and sassy sashays may have given a little light to someone somewhere, who may have needed it. To everyone whose heartfelt stories I have heard, or read I thank you for truly enriching my life."
Now, as we mourn the loss of Naya Rivera, at least we can take comfort in knowing that her legacy will live on—that the light her Cheerios ponytail and sassy sashays gave us won't go out any time soon.
Excuse me, I have to go weep-sing-along to Rivera's cover of landslide now.
Glee - Landslide (Full Performance + Scene) 2x15 youtu.be
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