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Twitter Is Your Therapist Now:  #HowIFightDepression Offers Tips for Facing the Blues

A viral thread on Twitter is highlighting the best ways to deal with depression, showing that the Internet is maybe not always a hellhole; still, social media's effects on mental health are frequently debated.

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Therapy is often incredibly expensive even if you have insurance, and for many millennials, it's simply out of reach.

Luckily, Twitter users have stepped up to fill the therapist-shaped void in your psyche, offering valuable tips on handling mental illness via the viral hashtag #HowIFightDepression.

The offered advice runs the gamut from humorous to heart-wrenching. Among the most popular tips: canine companions and cannabis. Others cite fresh air, sleep, and keeping away from toxic people as ways to cope. Some advise getting outside into nature, perhaps riding through the Scottish countryside on a sunny day.

Some cited their favorite celebrities.



One thing that most of the tweets don't suggest is that there are any cure-alls for depression. One user writes, "No..don't fight it!! You must accept it, admit it!"


Many users are advising people to face their emotions instead of trying to numb them out or add to their pain by criticizing themselves for how they feel—a valuable insight, especially in a world where depression is often written off as something that can be cured with yoga and water. Realizing that your emotions are valid but still don't define you or make you unworthy is a tough balance to strike, but it can make all the difference, and that seems to be the central message on the thread.


"... It's somewhat ironic that social media is the medium by which these conversations are happening, since the Internet has received so much flack for its dangerous effects on mental health."

Though much of this advice is extremely valuable, it's somewhat ironic that social media is the medium by which these conversations are happening, since the Internet has received so much flack for its dangerous effects on mental health. While there's no clear consensus on Twitter's overall side-effects, some have proposed that the abundance of bad news that flashes up on the average Twitter feed can promote desensitization, forcing users to grow numb to their emotions in order to handle the deluge of tragedies and absurdity that accompanies the 24/7 news cycle.

"If you have different contrasting emotions, one after the other, you become desensitized to experiencing any one of them fully," writes University of Washington-Madison professor Joanne Cantor. "You could have the horror of the latest shooting, then watch the cute little kitties, then see a social justice issue that makes you feel terrible. Our brain was not designed, nor did it evolve, to experience so many things quickly in a row."

On the other hand, Twitter has received significantly less criticism than other social media platforms—namely Facebook and Instagram—in terms of its detrimental effects on mental health. Even Facebook executives have admitted that their platform can be dangerous, and several studies have shown that the social network can have negative effects on mental health by promoting self-comparison and reducing face-to-face interaction. Another recent study found that social media is having a negative effect on the mental health of users in Indonesia, because of the fact that it highlights steep levels of inequality, fostering resentment and unrest.

Even so, the overall truth about social media's effects on mental health might be a bit more nuanced. More recent studies have revealed that while passive engagement on social media—such as clicking, scrolling, and liking posts—can have a negative effect on mental health, active engagement, i.e. talking with others, can be a very positive thing.

"Social media is 'invaluable for people with health conditions to know that they are not alone, that there are other people who have gone through this and got better...'"

Still, as shown by the #HowIFightDepression thread, social media can be extremely useful in terms of breaking stigmas and helping people feel less alone; it can also foster the widespread dissemination of valuable tried-and-true advice from people who have firsthand experience with depression. Social media is "invaluable for people with health conditions to know that they are not alone, that there are other people who have gone through this and got better," says Professor John Powell, a researcher at Oxford University.

Albeit, excessive honesty is not always a positive thing. While confessional social media posts such as memes can be helpful in normalizing mental illness, online entities like depression memes and finstas can easily slide into a territory of glamorizing and trivializing serious disorders, promoting and encouraging harmful behaviors, or otherwise corroborating pre-existing issues.

All in all, mental illness is messy, and so naturally, it won't be any different online. Though not a substitute for therapy and medication, threads like #HowIFightDepression—with their messages of radical acceptance and abundance of dog photos—can foster vital solidarity among the roughly 300 million people who suffer from the illness worldwide.







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Is Britney OK?

Spears called out the paparazzi for the first time since the mid 2000s, raising eyebrows and possibly pointing to an unraveling icon.

Britney Spears

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Britney Spears has been hounded by the press and paparazzi for over two decades now.

Lately, her social media page is not only filled with typical mom quotes, but also more personal messages about her wellness and life. Her first Instagram story, however, diverged from these patterns.

After yachting with her boyfriend, Britney took to Instagram to introduce a "conspiracy theory" she's been working on:

"Hello, and please don't judge me, I look haggard right now. But my question to all of you is: a lot of fans in our world today, they always are subject to really criticize people and say that the pictures and videos that they're posting are either not on time or they're fake.

"But no one ever really asks: Are the paparazzi pictures fake, and do the paparazzi people do stuff to the pictures and is the news really real? It's a conspiracy theory that I'm actually interested in. Yesterday I went swimming. I look like I'm 40 pounds bigger [than I am today]. This is how I am right now, and I'm skinny as a needle. You tell me, what is real?"

While Spears is in fact "skinny as a needle" and toned like a goddess, angles were obviously a factor.

She tends to be sillier on her Instagram than some of her pop peers, but the pressure and refocused spotlight may be getting to her. With the #FreeBritney movement and on-going concern for Britney's mental health, it's difficult not to take note of the manic expression on the star's face in the video. The proud gym rat prioritizes her physique, but calling out the paparazzi for the first time since the mid 2000s raises eyebrows and possibly points to an unraveling icon. Spears' distrust of the media is understandable, as the traumatizing tabloid era and Britney frenzy would make anyone distrustful and full of disdain. Hopefully, the media can soon regain her trust to help drive the #FreeBritney movement forward.

Lots of my friends are taking fitness classes and it's all they talk about. From barre to pilates to turbo kickboxing, I can't keep up. I finally found it in myself to join the craze and try one of these fitness classes, and it is safe to say I have never felt more embarrassed in my life. I was dripping in sweat and could barely keep up with the trainer or anyone around me.

For a long time, I haven't been able to bring myself to get on a steady exercise routine. I thought signing up for a class would help, but I was way too intimidated to go back. What I was really looking for was a guided class that I can do at my own pace, while getting some instruction and not feeling lost. While Googling a way to take some classes at home, I came across this fitness app called Aaptiv, and I knew I had to try it out.

Aaptiv offers guided audio fitness classes through their app for every experience level, taught by certified personal trainers. You can choose classes by workout type, trainer, music genre, class length, or level of difficulty.

After looking at the variety of trainer led workouts on Aaptiv's site, I was reassured to see a lot of beginner level classes to choose from. They also have a cool Coach feature, which designs a personal health plan that's just for you. The feature combines your fitness, wellness and dietary goals to figure out the perfect plan to help you maintain a healthy lifestyle. You can specify whether you want to eat better or feel less stress, and from there, it will come up with an outline and step by step guide to get you there. I've been wanting to get more serious about my overall health, so I loved that the Coach would break down a goal for me into small, easily attainable steps.

Aaptiv only costs $99.99 a year, or a little over $8 a month, so I decided it was worth a shot. I started by answering a couple of questions about my fitness history, goals, and some healthy habits that I want to start practicing. From there, it curated a list of activities and workouts to help me get on the right path. You can chose to incorporate the trainer led workouts into your plan, or workout on your own.

I needed a little push of motivation, so for my first workout, I did the "BYOBody Weight" with Rochelle—no equipment needed, only 8 minutes long, and something I could do in my living room—no pressure! As I listened, Rochelle guided me through quick intervals of high knees, squats and lunges. I loved how easy it was to follow along to her instructions, and the music she picked out was fun and kept me focused during each exercise.

I was surprised at how fast I picked everything up, especially with no distractions. Having Rochelle cheer me on throughout the class was so encouraging, and I was motivated to stick with each set. I decided to do another short class after that, and before I knew it, by the end of the week I had tried three other beginner classes and was feeling more and more confident.

When I work out with Aaptiv, I don't have to worry anymore about going to an in-person studio where I feel out of my element. Instead, I can take a class with a trainer guiding me the whole way, and avoid that feeling totally lost in a group class. Now, before I start a workout, I browse the options and trainers to find classes that best fit my level and my mood. Aaptiv's coach feature has made overhauling my fitness routine a lot less intimidating.

Thanks to Aaptiv, I don't feel like such a fitness newbie anymore and I've never felt more confident about working out.

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