AZIZ ANSARI speaks truth on dating and relationships

COMEDY | From Master of None to stand-up to his book on love, Aziz Ansari has a lot to say

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Aziz Ansari reflects on modern dating...with a laugh.

Aziz Ansari has been popping up all over the place lately (well, all over my Netflix queue to be specific) and the world has fallen in love. Aziz brings a modern twist to the comedy world with his bits on online dating, ghosting, and relationships. He manages to make you laugh while also dishing burns at our generation's way of dating.

His most recent work on Netflix,

Master of None, is an original series that he created and stars in. With this series, Aziz not-so-subtly raises questions about modern American society forcing the viewer to take pause and reflect between bouts of laughter. Aziz also has three comedy specials on Netflix and wrote a book called Modern Romance: An Investigation. If you aren't familiar with his work, or just in need of a pick-me-up, we've compiled a list of some of our favorite Aziz quotes for you to enjoy.

Aziz on ghosting

"Now if someone likes you and you don't like them back, you just pretend to be busy forever. That's what people do now, they pretend to be busy forever, then they conduct this strange psychological experiment, where it's like, 'How much hope does this person have?' "

-Live at Madison Square Garden

Aziz on guy behavior

"One girl raved about a nice voicemail a guy had recently left her. I kindly requested she play it and heard this gem: 'Hey, Lydia. It's Sam. Just calling to say what's up. Gimme a ring when you get a chance.' That was it. I pleaded to know what was so great about this. She sweetly recalled that 'He remembered my name, he said hi, and he told me to call him back.' Never mind the fact that what she described was the content of literally every voicemail in history. Name, hello, please call back. Not really a boatload of charm on display. To fail this test, a guy would have to leave a message that said: 'No greeting. This is man. I don't remember you. End communication.' "

-Modern Romance: An Investigation

Aziz on texting etiquette

"There is no official guidebook anywhere on texting yet, but a cultural consensus has slowly formed in regard to texts. Some basic rules: • Don't text back right away. You come off like a loser who has nothing going on. • If you write to someone, don't text them again until you hear from them. • The amount of text you write should be of a similar length to what the other person has written to you. • Carrying this through, if your messages are in blue and the other person's messages are green, if there is a shit ton more blue than green in your conversation, this person doesn't give a shit about you. • The person who receives the last message in a convo WINS!"

-Modern Romance: An Investigation

Aziz on online dating

"That's the thing about the Internet: It doesn't simply help us find the best thing out there; it has helped to produce the idea that there is a best thing and, if we search hard enough, we can find it. And in turn there are a whole bunch of inferior things that we'd be foolish to choose."

-Modern Romance: An Investigation

"For me the takeaway of these stories is that, no matter how many options we seem to have on our screens, we should be careful not to lose track of the human beings behind them. We're better off spending quality time getting to know actual people than spending hours with our devices, seeing who else is out there."

-Modern Romance: An Investigation

"When you hear a Flo Rida song at first you're like, 'What is this, Flo Rida? It's the same thing you've always done. I'm not listening to this song.' And then you keep hearing it and you're like, 'Oh my God, Flo Rida. You've done it again! This is a hit, baby!' And that's what people are like. People are like a Flo Rida song. You need to hear them a couple of times before you really get what they're about."

-Modern Romance: An Investigation

Aziz on marriage

"Hey, so we've been hanging out together all the time, spending a lot of time together and everything... I wanna keep doing that 'til you're dead. I want to keep hanging out with you 'til one of us dies. Put this ring on your finger so people know we have an arrangement."

-Buried Alive

"I see people my age… getting married to people they've known for like a year and a half. A year and a half? Is that enough time to get to know someone to know you want to spend the rest of your life with them? I've had sweaters for a year and a half and I was like 'What the f*ck was I doing with this sweater?'"

-Buried Alive


REVIEW | 5 underrated TV comedies that are really good

Tired of scrolling through your Netflix queue? Check out these five binge-worthy comedies.

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Just want to laugh, but can't find a show that's worth the time to stream?

It's another late night and you've been switching between Netflix, Amazon Prime and Hulu scrolling through the feeds with a million options but nothing spikes your interest. It seems that there are so many TV shows out there making it difficult to filter through all the noise. Instead of cuing up Friends for the hundredth time, why not give some new shows a try?


The premise of the show is an American guy (Rob Delaney) meets a British woman (Sharon Horgan) and after a one-night stand she gets pregnant. They decide to try and make it work and start a family together. Catastrophe is a kind of like the train-wreck you can't peel your eyes away from. It's a show about what it's like to be in a relationship today, facing realities many couples face like losing a job, infidelity and deception all while trying to raise a family. There are three seasons and each one is vastly different from the last. While still categorized as a comedy, this show pulls on the heartstrings and raises deep questions about love and relationships. But, you'll find yourself rooting for the characters by the end.

The third season of Catastrophe was just released on Amazon. Click here to start with Season one.

Happy Endings

The Friends-style comedy of the 90's worked exceptionally well and we've seen countless series attempt to recreate that plot line. We all know the formula: six friends, three ladies and three guys, two of them are dating, and a couple of them switch off being the comic relief. Happy Endings is one example of a show that was able to get the formula right but with an up-to-date, modern plot line. Each episode surprises you with laughs and the storylines twist when you might be expecting a turn. Happy Endings is the perfect show to turn on when you just want to lounge and veg out, oh and possibly cry with laughter. Unfortunately it was cancelled after three seasons on ABC, but thank God for Hulu keeping it alive.

I dare you to start with the pilot episode and not get hooked. Hulu features all three seasons here.


If you're in the mood for a good comedy but like a little more complexity and character development, then Transparent is for you. This show features a far-from-functional family with healthy familial boundaries constantly being crossed. The patriarch of the family, played by Jeffrey Tambor comes out to his family as trans, but the show doesn't just rely on that subject matter to move it forward. Transparent reveals the intricacies of family dynamics focusing on parent/adult-child relationships, sibling relationships, and romantic relationships. This show pushes past the typical boundaries of a prescribed plot line, sometimes forcing the viewer to suspend disbelief and follow it down a rabbit hole into a character's twisted psyche. It's at once improbable and very much relatable to see how complicated all relationships can be.

Start with season one on Amazon Prime. Oh, and the soundtrack is reason alone to watch the show.


With only eight episodes so far, Insecure has made quite the impact on the audience scoring 100% on Rotten Tomatoes and receiving much critical acclaim. Created by Issa Rae and Larry Wilmore and loosely based on the web series The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl, the show revolves around the happenings of main character, Issa and her best friend, Molly. The first season explores themes of dating, building a career, and finding oneself in your 20s, through the black female perspective. This show will draw you in and make you cringe with anxious nerves as you see Issa's life awkwardly unravel, all the while hoping this unraveling is exactly what she needed.

Season two premieres on HBO on Sunday, July 23rd. Read more about Issa Rae and Insecure here.

One Mississippi

Tig Notaro has gained a lot of attention the past few years with her Netflix comedy special and her memoir about loss and her personal experience with cancer, I'm Just a Person. Her new Amazon Prime series, One Mississippi, takes the audience on an emotional adventure when Tig returns to her hometown in Mississippi to be at her mother's deathbed. Written unlike any other show, One Mississippi, is about the absurdity and the unavoidable moments of humor that arise when life presents us with extreme pain and death. Tig crafts a beautiful story about family that somehow makes you laugh even when you should be crying.

Check out season one on Amazon and watch Tig's comedy special on Netflix here.